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Our slogan for the house |
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Normal Tv console |
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Our cozy corner |
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Something i do to disturb my wife |
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Our Dining table |
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Our Corridor |
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My collection |
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Hotel style hotel |
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Our living room |
Finally and finally the house is done. Not 100% done, but atleast is in a condition that we can live in. I like my house because it bring wealth to the people around when we first selected the house and also when we took the keys. To chinese like us it a good sign, but im just happy that people around get a little fortune out of my house.
After moving in for about 2 months, my wife presented to me a gift. A new life! A new family member! Yes, i know, i play apart in this new life, but was not to expected to have him/her sooooo soon. Yes, of coz im overjoyed! that is y till now, after 1 month of knowing the news, and settle down, thou i still smile to myself from time to time, im now able to come back to my blog.
Actually, i think i was the first to know that my wife was pregnant. i had a dream one night. In the dream i was carrying a baby, i assume it's a boy as the baby have no hair, (but most baby have not much hair to began with. In the dream there was also 3 other person, both my in laws and my wife.
I must be carrying the baby in a weird or dangerous way, as i saw my in law faces were like they seen something horrible. i remember change from carry to holding the baby hands straight up and make him walk, that was when the in law faces changes. There faces give me the, "what the hell is he doing to the baby!!" At this time, mummy was busy shopping as usual. the next thing i know i woke up. I told the story to my wife and i told her that i think she is pregnant, then she just "hahaha" and went to bath. As it was not the time of the month yet so she didnt care much about it, and think i was trying to be funny.
My wife went for a short business trip and came home telling me that she miss her, (u know lah), so i told her i knew my dream was truth, which was verified and confirm with a test kit, which is not cheap thou!
This took place like 1 and half months ago, but im still very happy and high.
It's not easy to example this excitement and happiness in words, especially when im not good in language. it like drinking lots of coffee plus lots of sugar, u cant sleep, u keep smiling, u cant do yr work, u start thinking what yr next Gen will look like, how he or she will behave, boy or girl. I still find myself suddenly "stone" and smile to myself, some people caught me doing it, but i cant of dun care.
i lost quite abit of sleep after receiving the news, in fact, quite a few weeks of sleep. I find the whole pregnant thing very amazing! Im not a science student, nor someone interested in how human came about, but im amaze by how a baby is form! i something stop to wonder that this can only be done with the help of God. For someone who have not been to church (a place where i found my wife), for quite sometime, i am truly amaze by what God can do. Truly thankful for the chance to be a father! How to make liquid turn into something so solid? and we are not talking about ICE! Anyway, to deep for me to understand.......now i can only protect the "factory" and our "product"......!
This blog is not to share how happy im but to share how much i like to thank my wife for willing to have our child. I know it not easy, not that i have gone thru it, but what i can see! My wife stop eating meat, which is not normal, (please dont become vegetarian) im bit prepared for that change! the physical change, the also tired look, the :P"" (vomit) almost everyday (whole day). Sure dont look easy to me.....Salute to my wife! ........Its a new day, its a new life......and im feeling Goooood!!!